Relationship Counselling in Gloucester

Is there something lost in your relationship? Couples counselling offers an opportunity to be heard, understood, and feel more confident in addressing issues.

Why might we need couples counselling?

Couples invest in relationship counselling for different reasons. It could be that you're struggling to speak about issues around family, money, intimacy, conflict, and sex.

Or maybe you're finding it hard to face and resolve unresolved conflicts or arguments that have left you feeling emotionally frustrated and tired.

It could be that you feel you've grown apart, that one or both of you have changed, or that your relationship is at a major crossroads.

For some couples, sadly, they decide it's better to part ways, and working with a relationship counsellor can help them get through this difficult time amicably.

Whatever your situation, couples counselling will provide you and your partner with a safe space to think about how you want to move your relationship forward.

"Thank you for working with us; we appreciated your compassionate and non-judgmental approach, which encouraged us to open up to you. It cannot have been easy to counsel a couple as different from each other as we are, but we felt listened to and valued throughout, and we benefited from your insight and practical advice. We have found you through a recommendation from a friend, and will, in turn, be recommending you to others!"

- S & J

What can you help us with?

You may face other challenges as a couple, but in relationship counselling, I can help you explore them so you can feel heard, understood, and more confident about finding a way forward.

There are different problems or issues, but some common ones I've helped couples with include:

  • clarifying what they want from their relationship

  • regaining a sense of value, direction, and commitment

  • managing significant life changes such as illness or redundancy

  • having a better understanding of one another's needs

  • aligning expectations about intimacy and connection

  • improving and developing communication and conflict

  • moving forward following betrayal and addressing mistrust

  • working through the effects of unmanaged or addictive behaviours

What will our first couples counselling session be like?

Deciding to start couples counselling can be the first step to opening up new possibilities and providing hope that you can strengthen your relationships.

A free consultation call

Because you may feel unsure about what couples counselling looks like, before deciding if we're a good fit, I'd invite you to talk with me on a free consultation call.

During the call, we'll speak briefly about the issues you're facing, and you'll also be invited to ask me any questions.

Getting started

After your consultation call, we'll decide if we're a good fit, agree on a good date and time to get started, and I'll send you some digital documents for completion.

These documents will include details on confidentiality, our responsibilities, payment methods, counselling breaks, cancellations, and more.

In some cases, to better understand how you see your relationship, it may be helpful if I meet you individually before we continue joint sessions.

How you might feel

You might feel a mix of emotions both during and after your initial session. It's normal for the first conversation to leave you feeling emotionally tired and a bit sensitive.

The reason you may feel this way is that you'll be asked questions about your relationship that you might not be used to discussing openly.

Again, this is normal. But over time, you can expect to feel more comfortable speaking about the challenges you're facing as a couple.

It could feel worse

Relationship counselling can involve discussing historical issues that cause pain, and this isn't always easy.

Because of this, don't be surprised if things feel worse before you start to experience any positive changes in your relationship.

Although this can happen, as your wounds open and your experiences are shared, I'll help you explore the issues raised in more depth.

Counselling options

Get clear on what you want, better understand your and your partner's needs, and improve your relationship.

Relationship counselling is available for couples in Gloucestershire and the surrounding areas.

Remote counselling sessions via Zoom are available for couples not in Gloucestershire.

Couples Counselling

from £95.00

Identify and clarify areas in need of improvement, and develop healthy ways of addressing your problems together.

Individual Counselling

from £63.00

Explore the impact of your experiences and consider healthy ways to improve your emotional and mental wellbeing.

"I found Nic to be very approachable and knowledgeable. His support has made a lot of difference to our relationship, and I feel we approach things with more understanding now, which causes less conflict."

- Anon

Counselling location and areas served

Face-to-face counselling sessions are held at Eastgate House in Gloucester city centre.

With good local parking, clients can easily travel from surrounding areas in Gloucestershire, including Cheltenham, Stroud, Dursley, the Forest of Dean, and Wye Valley.

Eastgate House is a 5-7 minute walk from Gloucester train and coach stations.

Eastgate House, 121-131 Eastgate Street, Gloucester, UK

"It was really helpful talking to Nic. He set me at ease, making me feel free to talk openly about my feelings."

- Phil

"Working with Nic definitely helped me to think more clearly and confidently about my emotions."

- Jemma

"Nic was incredibly understanding of the issues I was having, and fantastic at challenging me when needed."

- Dan

Some common questions...

What makes this programme different from other stress management programmes?

What sets the Stress Reset Coaching Programmes apart is the structured, progressive approach. Rather than just learning techniques, you'll create lasting change by first understanding your unique stress patterns. Then you'll develop targeted strategies and build them into sustainable habits. The combination of personal tracking tools and one-on-one coaching means you're getting a customised experience, not a one-size-fits-all solution.

I'm already busy, how can I fit this into my schedule?

I understand your time is precious, so the daily activities are designed to integrate into your existing routine, taking just 15-30 minutes per day.

This small time investment will create more time in your day by reducing stress-related inefficiencies. We can also look at your schedule together and identify the best times for these activities, ensuring they support rather than strain your routine.

What if I fall behind or miss some days?

The Stress Reset Coaching Programmes are designed to be flexible while maintaining momentum. If you miss a day, you can easily pick up where you left off. The weekly check-ins help us identify any challenges early, and our one-on-one sessions are perfect opportunities to adjust the approach if needed. This programme is about progress, not perfection.

How do I know if I'm ready for this programme?

The best indicator is your recognition that your current stress management approach could be more effective. If you're feeling the impact of stress on your well-being, work, or relationships, and you're willing to commit 15-30 minutes daily to create change, you're ready! The programmes provide all the tools and support you need; you just need to be willing to engage with the process.

What kind of results can I expect?

The daily tracking helps you see your progress clearly over time. While everyone's journey is different, you can expect several key improvements by day sixty. For example, better sleep, less anxiety around work demands, clearer boundaries, more energy throughout the day, and confidence in handling stressful situations. You'll also develop a practical toolkit of strategies you can use long-term.

What happens after the programme ends?

By the end of the programme, you'll have established new habits and practical tools you can use independently. You'll also have your completed tracking sheets and personalised strategy documents to reference. If you feel you'd benefit from continued support, we can discuss options for maintenance coaching sessions. The goal is to ensure you feel confident managing stress independently while knowing support is available if needed.

What if it doesn't work for me?

Your success is my priority! Regular check-ins and tracking tools help us identify what's working and what isn't, allowing us to adjust our approach to better suit your needs. The one-on-one sessions ensure you're getting personalised support throughout the programme. If you're engaged with the process and completing the activities, you'll definitely see improvement! But rest assured, we'll work together to find the right strategies for you.

How much do your coaching sessions cost?

The Stress Reset Coaching Programmes start at £750.00. We'll discuss the details of each programme during your consultation call to ensure you feel confident in choosing the option that best meets your needs and goals. After your consultation call, you will be able to assess the value of the outcome you desire and decide on whether the programs are the right investment for you. Book your free consultation call to discuss the challenges you're facing, what the programme offers, and whether we'd be a good fit.

Do you offer payment options?

I believe in making this investment manageable. The programs can be paid in full, or we can discuss the payment plan options. The investment includes all one-to-one coaching sessions, daily tracking tools, weekly reviews/check-ins, ongoing email support, and the programme resources and materials. I'm happy to provide more details about the payment options that would work best for you.

Can I speak with past clients about their experience?

I respect my clients' privacy, but I can share several testimonials and case studies. These include specific examples of challenges they faced and the outcomes they achieved when working with me. I can send these to you after our call, or you can see some on my testimonials page.

Previous coaching didn't work. Why would this be different?

The Stress Reset Coaching Programmes are different because we focus on understanding why previous attempts haven't stuck before implementing new strategies. The gradual, three-phase approach ensures we're building on solid foundations, rather than just adding more techniques. Plus, the combination of daily tracking and regular coaching lets us identify and address obstacles before they derail your progress.

I'm not sure I can commit to all the coaching sessions...

The coaching sessions are strategically placed to maximise your progress. They're scheduled at key transition points, where focused support makes the most significant difference. However, we can be flexible with the scheduling of these sessions, and I'll ensure you get the most value from each one. Previous clients find these sessions and check-ins crucial for staying on track and making progress quickly.

What if I need support between coaching sessions?

Between sessions, you'll have clear daily guidance through the programme materials, and the tracking tools will help you monitor your progress. I also provide ongoing email support for quick questions or clarifications. While the programme is designed to build your independent stress management skills, you're never left entirely on your own.

I'm going through a particularly stressful period. Should I wait to start?

If you're going through a stressful time, this could be the perfect time to start! The programmes will help you develop real-time strategies for managing current stressors while building resilience for the future. We can use your current challenges as practical opportunities to apply and refine new approaches. Now would be the ideal time to get started!

How does this fit with the therapy I'm currently receiving?

These programmes can complement therapeutic work well, as we focus on practical stress management strategies and habit formation. However, I'd recommend mentioning the programme to your therapist to ensure it aligns with your overall therapeutic goals or treatment plan. What's good is that the tracking tools used in the Stress Reset Coaching Programmes can also provide valuable insights for your therapeutic work.

Ready to get started?

Book your consultation, and let's chat about the changes you want to see and the impact you want to have!

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